You are not your name; if you change your name you will still be you. You don’t become someone else when you change your job, so you are not your job. You are not your hobbies, likes or interests; it’s likely that those have changed since childhood, without eliminating you. You are not your political ideology or your beliefs, even your religious beliefs; you exist independent of them. When you look in a mirror, that’s not you either: your body ages but still you remain you. And you are not your OCD.
It is tragically limiting to identify your self with a mental illness, a mindset, fears or painful thoughts. Once you separate your true self from OCD or intrusive thoughts, it will be much easier to let them go. Once you accept deep down that you do not need OCD in order to keep being you, it’s like turning a corner and it becomes possible to leave the OCD behind.
The more you untangle your sense of self from physical and mental quirks and attributes, from environmental conditions and all of the drama of life, you have access to all of the power that was tied up in those false beliefs about what makes you you. And you can use that power to create the life that you want.
Picture being free to give 100% of your attention to the present moment, with none of your energy tied up in fear or worry. When you talk to a friend, you could be fully engaged and present with them. At…
