Stop saying “Gypped”

You’re a good person. You rail against neo-Nazis and Mitch McConnell. It’s actually not hard to complain about racist cops and sexist fathers-in-laws. What’s hard is changing your own behavior. Because if you let the truth seep in that you may be doing or saying something racist, sexist or homophobic, you might perceive that as an affront to your goodness. So I get it. White people get defensive about any implication that they may be racist. That…